Ep. 050 Gavin Wells, COO FX, LSEG

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ Finding Meaning, Coaching with Depth, and the Work of Values with Gavin Wells

In this expansive and deeply thoughtful episode, Iโ€™m joined by Gavin Wells โ€” leadership coach, former army officer, financial services executive, and author of the paper Finding Your Values: Why You May Want To โ€” and Why It Shouldnโ€™t Be a Lonely Task.

Gavinโ€™s journey threads through military leadership, global business, coaching psychology, and personal introspection. What emerges is a powerful, researched-based perspective on how values give us not only meaning โ€” but direction, dignity, and resilience.

In this episode, we explore:

  • ๐Ÿงญ Why values arenโ€™t just words on a wall โ€” but internal compasses that shape our decisions

  • ๐Ÿ” The academic roots of values research, from Maslow to Rokeach to Stelter

  • ๐Ÿ’ฌ What happens when your behavior is in conflict with your values โ€” and how that dissonance shows up

  • ๐Ÿง  Why most people donโ€™t know their values โ€” and why itโ€™s worth the deep work to find them

  • ๐Ÿ”จ The research behind Gavinโ€™s paper โ€” including 12 discovery methods and real-world coaching insights

  • ๐Ÿค What values-based coaching requires from coaches: vulnerability, trust, structure, and congruence

  • ๐Ÿข How organizational values relate to โ€” and sometimes clash with โ€” individual ones

  • ๐ŸŒŸ A powerful reflection on legacy, leadership, and making space for meaning at work

Whether youโ€™re a coach, a leader, or someone exploring your own core beliefs, Gavin brings clarity and warmth to a topic that deserves far more depth than it usually gets.

๐Ÿ“„ Read the paper: https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2023-83189-014
๐Ÿ“ฒ Connect with Gavin on LinkedIn: Gavin Wells | LinkedIn