Ep, 052.5 (Part DEUX) - Dana Bernstein, Coach and Author

πŸŽ™οΈ Uncovering Pillars & Radical Self-Honesty with Dana Bernstein (Part Deux)

In Part Deux of my conversation with coach and author Dana Bernstein, we get personal β€” Dana guides me through her Pillar Discovery process in real time, and what unfolds is a conversation filled with humor, reflection, and surprising clarity.

This isn’t just a demonstration of working with her book β€” it’s an honest exploration of what makes us us, and how the language we use to describe our inner world can unlock compassion, resilience, and choice.

In this episode, we dive into:

  • 🧠 The difference between values and pillars β€” and why it matters in daily life

  • 🎯 Using values like β€œjackets” you can put on and take off with intention

  • πŸŒ€ What internal conflict really reveals β€” and how to move through it

  • πŸ’¬ Why mischievousness, kindness, curiosity, and adventure showed up as my own pillars

  • πŸ§ƒ The chicken parm vs. razor clams metaphor you didn’t know you needed

  • πŸ’› A real moment of gratitude and community that reminded me why this work matters

Dana is equal parts playful and profound in this episode β€” and the clarity that comes out of the messiness is something I hope listeners sit with, just like I am.

πŸ“– More info on the book: https://danalynnbernstein.com/
πŸ“² Connect with Dana: linkedin.com/in/danabernstein